I'm Carri Adcock, writer, inspirer, mentor, and I help people make space and enjoy the ride.

I do this in by sharing what I have been given and practiced over the last 15+ years myself, and with hundreds of women (and men) around the world.

The work we do is not about adding to who you are, it's about UNCOVERING what is already there.

I create opportunities through retreats, groups, and workshops to light up what's in your heart, give space and voice to what you find, and tools to integrate this new learning into your everyday life.

Forcing never creates, the door of the soul opens inward, and this retreat provides the inspiration, support and environment to turn the key and unlock your heart.

This life is not a dress-rehearsal :).


Xanet Pailet is a nationally recognized sexuality educator and coach and bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure.  Xanet is a former NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades.  After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach and is now based in Asheville, North Carolina.

Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping individuals find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure.  Over the past decade, she has helped rescue hundreds of couples from unsatisfying sex lives and has helped women who are sexually shut down learn how to love themselves, their body, and reclaim their desire.

Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Somatic Sexologist, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. She is on the faculty of 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute.